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A model representing the woman carefully meditating only to end up making the wrong decision
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My wife has made 3 major life decisions over 10 years that have financially devastated our family. I love her, but I no longer trust her judgment.
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A representation of the couple starting again in another country
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For some people, prosperity is an unfamiliar territory, and scarcity feels like home. From what the husband is telling, I can read that the wife has been presented with many amazing opportunities, and for one reason or another, she has made sure she misses them. These are very complex tendencies to suffer from, and also to watch somebody have, especially if it’s our significant other.
Something suggests the wife is not consciously rejecting these opportunities; she instead seems unaware of how the bigger picture looks. Judging only from his version of the story, I’m not sure if he ever tried to talk to her about the entire pattern instead of just talking about her latest ‘mistake’.
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An illustrative image depicting the husband making plans for the future
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I’m probably coming from a place of too much ‘open-mindedness’, because that’s just how I think, but I believe a family can totally reinvent itself, and if he feels he could recover their finances entirely by doing it alone in another country, so be it. Maybe it’s good for both of them. He can provide stability for both of them and their children while trying to help with the wife’s issues without letting them affect the family so much. What I like about this story is that he is coming from a place of love and understanding, and that’s the perfect recipe for working stuff like this out. It would probably be so blissful if she had some time to figure her stuff out while someone else provides the backbone for the family!
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